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Now, I know I'm about to make every black girl mad with this post. But with the way I am feeling right now, I could care less. There is a really big problem with our society. Race is the determining factor for too much in our lives. Why is it that when black women see a successful black man in a relationship with a white woman, they get mad. Most of the time, those same black women never really liked that successful black man in the first place. Listen to this story and see if it sounds familiar. Imagine yourself in high school, back in the day. Do you remember the type of men that you liked at that time. Well, if you don't let me refresh your memory. Let's start with the 6'4' basketball player who was the pimp of the school. He could get any woman he wanted because of his jumpshot and his killer looks. He was the One, wasn't he. Or was he. What you fail to remember is that his GPA was lower than a midget's self esteem when talking to a supermodel. Ok, let's look at the fake thug who never went to class that you loved so much. The only reason why you couldn't get enough of him was because of the rumor you heard about the "size" of a certain part of his body. Well, let's look at the short guy who was the one of the smartest guys in your class and had a major crush on you. He was respectful to everyone and was a just a good guy. Oh wait, you never liked that guy. He was always too soft or he lacked that special "umph" that you have always wanted. You would just use his affection for you to your advantage in order to boost your GPA. Well, lets forget that for a second and fast forward 10 years from that point in your life. Imagine yourself seeing those same guys 10 years from your high school graduation. Well it seems the basketball player is doing well for himself. He has a job working at a local factory for minimal wage. Oh, by the way he has 4 children by 4 different women. Well surely the thug is doing better. But wait, it seems that he is in jail for 20 years for armed robbery and attemped murder after trying to rob a bank for extra money. Surely if the basketball player and the thug are having a hard life, the scholar who was short can't be doing any better. You keep that thought in your mind until you see the scholar. He is living better than well off. The man has 3 luxury cars, a yacht, a lake beside his house, and an estate worth over 20 million dollars. Now, you can see yourself as his woman until you see his wife. It's a white girl. You start to get mad and begin to curse at the top of your lung. Well let me tell you this. You had your chance and blew it. He didn't choose that white girl because he was successful and felt that the only person he could share his wealth with was a white girl and not a black girl. No, he chose her because she probably took a liken to him before the wealth. Some black women fail to look at the potential of man, because he doesn't fit their description of a perfect man at that time. Sometimes the "now" can be deceiving. Thier future could be a total waste. Anyway, black men who date white girls do not hate black women. They just like the idea of the opposite sex having some type of affection for them. Everyone likes to be liked and if the tables were turned, you would do the same thing. At the end of the day, there is one major similarity between black people and white people. And it is that were all are people. The white and black skin color is nothing but skin color. In God's eyes, He sees us as the same type of person. That successful black man doesn't owe anything to his race by marrying a black girl that he doesn't like. Don't blame him, blame yourself for not being appealing enough for him. Sometimes you can't control your affections toward another person. That's life and you just have to live with it.