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Most of the people who actually read my blog know that I’m not one to hold back in my writing. When I see an issue that urks me, I normally go in with all intent of getting my point of view out. However, I have noticed that I have got on the women a little too much without giving equal attention to the men. So, I decided that it was time to help the women instead of chastising them all the time. I have said plenty of times that the women don’t know what a GOOD MAN is, so I have made it my duty to devise a list of the MAIN TYPES of GUYS that women shouldn’t date. There are more types that should be on this list, but these are the main types that cause discomfort to the FEMALE gender. {Caution: If you think I’m talking about you, then you must be admitting to yourself what you really are!!!!}

5. The Clown

I can already hear it now. Many of you are asking what is THE CLOWN. Well, THE CLOWN is the dude that does anything for a laugh. He has no goal in life. Basically, his life is your entertainment. At first glance, most women don’t view THE CLOWN as boyfriend material. But once THE CLOWN starts working his magic, women are reeled in. Most women like to laugh and that falls right into his plans. You see THE CLOWN’S main intention, just like the rest on this list, is to get in between your legs. He just goes about it in a unique way. Some CLOWNS have problems with narcotics and the bottle. Those things tend to alter his mood from time to time and make him over the edge sometimes. You would be surprised at how many girls THE CLOWN has. A lot of women want to have fun and that is what THE CLOWN provides; A brief moment of FUN. But it doesn’t last forever and THE CLOWN eventually moves on to the next girl.

4. The “Wanna Be” Thug

THE WANNA BE THUG is just that, a WANNA BE THUG!!!! This dude walks, talks, dresses, and acts like a REAL THUG. But the problem is that this dude has NEVER done anything in life THUG WORTHY!!! He knows every THUG song and he lives by what he hears on a CD. One of his biggest attributes it that he talks A LOT of noise. He is that dude that always talks about fighting, but no one has actually seen him in a real fight!!! This dude gets girls off of strictly reputation. A lot of girls get sucked into thinking he is a thug, even though he is not. Some girls even recognize that he his NOT a thug and still decide to give him a try. But it really doesn’t matter to THE WANNE BE THUG because the only thing he cares about is himself. He will continue to be that dude claiming to have MORE WHORES THAN YOU!!!!

3. The Cocky Athlete

THE COCKY ATHLETE is a unique individual. He is supremely confident because he has to be that way. His respective sport requires him to be confident in his abilities. But the problem is that he doesn’t know how TURN HIS SWAG OFF!!! THE COCKY ATHLETE only talks to certain females because he feels that he is of a higher echelon than others. You would think that this attitude would detract girls from wanting to be with him, but the opposite actually happens. More girls want to be with him because they figure he’s a hard catch. Everyone loves a challenge. But just like when he dominates his opposition in his respective sport, he dominates the relationship. It’s always going to be about him, whether you like it or not. THE COCKY ATHLETE, also, does have A LOT of options out there in the marketplace. So if the female is not living up to his expectations, then he will go looking elsewhere.

2. The Real Thug

It has been said that most girls tend to gravitate to the BAD BOYS. Well we all know that the ultimate “Bad Boy” is THE REAL THUG. This dude is always in the streets because that is all he knows. His life is all about “Trap or Die!!!” But don’t get me wrong, he is still able to show his softer side. I guess this is what attracts most females. The one thing you don’t have to worry about is protection with this guy. If you are having a problem, this guy will handle that real quickly in a violent manner. But the things that make him good also make him bad. Due to his violent nature, he is more likely to hit the female that he is with. You see, he has an uncontrollable rage and that can become scary in different situations. Before the girl knows it, she could end up dead messing with this dude. THE REAL THUG is also more likely to go to jail because of some the illegal activities he takes part in. That means that whoever is his girlfriend will have to wait on him to come out of jail and stay faithful for that time. Even if THE REAL THUG is in jail, he expects his lady to stay faithful to him. He is a controlling figure and everything must go his way or he will handle it.

1. The “Pretty” Boy

Now I know many of you are puzzled as to why I have THE PRETTY BOY number 1 on this list. Well it’s real simple. This dude can affect FEMALES in ways that NONE of these other guys can. Instead of messing with you physically, he works on you mentally and emotionally. This is the type of dude that most girls fall in love with, and become emotionally distraught when the relationship is over. The next thing you know, the girl is crying all the time because she feels that HER LIFE, HER LOVE, And HER ALL is gone. Meanwhile, this dude is already on the next chick, playing her like a fool. No one expects this guy to be the CHEATING type and that’s what he wants you to think. You see, this dude is the master manipulator. He knows what girls want to hear and he tells them that. He is great at telling lies and knows how to make them sound believable. He tends to LIE FOR NO REASON because that his apart of his nature. THE PRETTY BOY looks like everything a girl wants in a man. He dresses the part, talks the part, and walks the part. The problem is, though, that he CAN’T say NO to females. It’s nothing to him to have 6 or 7 girls at the same time. Even if he has the perfect girl next to him, he will always be in communication with another female. He ALWAYS has options. Matter of fact, THE REAL THUG is more likely to be faithful than THE PRETTY BOY.

Another reason why he is so dangerous is that he has the ability to make some girls become LESBIANS. Think about it. Some girls view THE PRETTY BOY as the perfect man. They figure if anybody is going to treat them right, it will be him. So they invest so much time into the relationship because they want to make sure it goes right. But then they find out he is cheating and they become emotional. After all that invested time they start to think that maybe ALL DUDES ARE DOGS. So they go after the next best thing and that’s another girl. Since men can’t treat her right, surely another female will treat her right. So now you see why this dude is probably THE MOST DANGEROUS MAN to date!!!!

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This is probably going to be the realest blog I’ve ever written in my life. I really don’t know what I’m going to say, but I do know that what I’m about to say has a purpose. I don’t think this will be posted on Facebook for the simple fact that I know only a few people will actually read it and the few that comment will give me cliché comments like look to God and there are people who love you. Those are things that I already know, so that won’t provide any help.

It began to rain today and I decided to sit in my garage and just think while the Earth gets purified. I began to do some deep sole searching and look on how my life has been so far. I know that there are few things I can complain about because God has blessed me so much, but there is one thing that tends to stand out every time I think about my life. Have you ever felt like you were just “Generic” or that you really wasn’t a priority in people’s lives. Well that’s how I feel from time to time. Many people may look at me on the outside and say, “How can you feel like you are not a priority when you have a mother and a father that live together, along with a loving sister. Plus you got to college for free and a lot of people know you???”

Well, I know that God and my family loves and care for me, but the problem is that it is hard to believe that anyone else cares. I’m a giving person and everybody knows that. I do all I can to help people out, but it doesn’t seem like I get back what I give out. I don’t ask for anything back when I do good deeds for people, but it would be nice if I could get something in return other than a THANK YOU. And the one thing that is hard for me to come to grips with is that I feel like I’m incapable of being a best friend. The reason why I say this is that if you ask every person I associate who their “BEST FRIEND” is. I can honestly say that NONE of them will say my name. Now that’s not a knock on them because I can’t control that, but can you imagine how that feels. I consider myself that friend EVERYBODY needs but don’t really appreciate to the extent that they appreciate their other friends.

I have all the qualities of a great friend in that I listen, provide help in times of need, and I’m always out there for your best interest. But those same qualities are the reason why I’m not BEST FRIEND material. People take dependable people for granted because they figure that person is always going to be dependable. So, they find people who they can have all out fun with. Now, I know that I don’t do a lot of things that society considers fun like smoke, drink, have pre-marital sex, and party. But, I provide much more than that as a person.

I compare my life to that of Tayshaun Prince. Remember back in 2004 when the Pistons beat the Lakers for the championship. We all know that them winning was a total team effort. But when you think about the pecking order of who was important, the first 4 names that come to your mind are Chauncey Billups, Rasheed Wallace, Richard Hamilton, and Ben Wallace. The person that is easily forgotten is Tayshaun Prince. If you look at Tayshaun, you will find out that he was possibly the most versatile player the player the Pistons had and he was the best perimeter defender they had. He shot the corner 3 when they needed it and he was a quiet leader. But, no matter how many times you think about that team, those first 4 names always come to mind before his. It’s not after you mention his name that you say “Oh, yeah he is a great player.” If you don’t believe me, remember when 4 of the Piston made the All Star team??? Well who was the only one to not make the All Star team from that starting 5??? It was Tayshaun Prince!!!

And that’s how I feel from time to time. No matter how dependable I am, I’m easily forgotten when it comes to the pecking order of people. I’m what you call a BACK BURNER friend. I’m that person who people throw on the back burner because they feel they have better people to be around. Now I know that people don’t intentionally try to do this to me, but that doesn’t take away the hurt feeling I get when I realize that someone forgot that I even existed!!! I guess that’s why it’s hard for me to get personal with the people I meet because I know that they will eventually forget all about me. I’m affected by this to a great degree because it seems that I will grow up alone.

And that’s how I feel from time to time. No matter how dependable I am, I’m easily forgotten when it comes to the pecking order of people. I’m what you call a BACK BURNER friend. I’m that person who people throw on the back burner because they feel they have better people to be around. Now I know that people don’t intentionally try to do this to me, but that doesn’t take away the hurt feeling I get when I realize that someone forgot that I even existed!!! I guess that’s why it’s hard for me to get personal with the people I meet because I know that they will eventually forget all about me. I’m affected by this to a great degree because it seems that I will grow up alone.

I would love to be the first choice of people when they think about a person. But I have had that feeling only a few times in my life. I know I should look to the hills from which cometh my help because all my help comes from the Lord. But, sometimes we as human beings seek Earthly value from people. There was one point in my life when I hated looking at my phone ring because I knew that the only reason people were calling me was because they needed something. There are few times when someone calls me just to check in on me to see how I’m doing. People just normally want something out of me. I’ve learned how deal with it, so it really doesn’t bother me anymore. But what I haven’t gotten used to is all these half-hearted apologies. People seem to think that a simple “I’m Sorry” rectifies what ever they do to me. I’m a forgiving guy, but still words without action make me mad!!! All I ask is that if I don’t lie to you, please don’t lie to me.

Now I don’t know exactly why I’m writing this post, but I do know that it is allowing me to take inventory of my life. I know eventually I will find answers to my questions, but I just wish that day would come sooner. I guess that’s why I listen to so much Charles Hamilton. I can’t directly relate to him, but I can apply some of his problems that he encounters to my life. He was freestyling the other day on Ustream and he said one phrase that caught my ear. He said that he was a NOBODY KNOWN BY EVERYBODY and that is exactly how I feel. I feel that I’m not important enough to be considered a top priority in anyone’s life, but everyone seems to know who I am. I guess I’m just a person that benefits a lot of people so they have to at least keep me apart of their life even though I’m not exactly what they would call a “Best Friend.”

So, I’m sure that this post will be like most of my others. It will be overlooked my many, while others will read parts of it and not all. I’m not really writing this for other people though. I’m writing this for me. I’m trying to let my frustrations out in some way so I won’t have all these feelings bottled up inside of me. I’m destined for greatness; I just hope that I have the right people around me so I can take them along with me.

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We often hear this phrase time and time again. “Nice Guys Finish Last!!!!” It’s embedded in our brains as infants. It’s plastered all over the TV screen. You hardly ever hear stories about how a nice guy did something nice for someone. But I bet you hear about a “Bad Boy” all the time. Even in the movies and the television screen, you normally see some dude get ridiculed by all the girls because he is TOO NICE, and then all of a sudden he changes his persona and stops being nice. Then and only then, the girls start to notice him.

For example, let’s look at the famous show Family Matters. We all know the main characters, so I don’t need to mention that. But let’s take a look at the relationship between Laura and Steve Urkle. Now, let’s forget how annoying Steve was and look at the INNER PERSON. Steve was a nice genuine guy. But do you think Laura would have liked Steve even if he wasn’t annoying. NOOOOOO!!!!!! It wasn’t until Steve made his alter ego, Stefan, when Laura decided she wanted some of Steve. The first version of Stefan was uncaring and unassuming. He really didn’t care about Laura feelings, but she was so in love with him. Now of course some changes had to be made to the Stefan character, but I have to ask this. Steve and Stefan was the same person, but she wanted Stefan. Even though Steve treated Laura better than any man she ever was with, she preferred Stefan. Why??? I tell you why. Because the WORLD wants you to believe that NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!!!! I’ll take it a step further. When Steve finally got with Laura, the show was on the decline and eventually got canceled!!!! My point exactly!!!! LOL

But even with the world telling you that NICE GUYS FINISH LAST, I can tell you from personal experience that that statement is TOTALLY INACCURATE!!! Let’s take ME for example. I have prided myself on being a NICE GUY. If you ask anyone that I knows, they will tell you that I’m a nice guy. Well, since I’m a nice guy, let me tell you the PERKS that come with me being a nice guy. I have a family that loves and supports me in whatever I do. I graduated at the TOP of my CLASS. I was a WELL RESPECTED football player in high school. I was blessed to receive a FULL SCHOLARSHIP to Jackson State University. I serve as President of SIFE (Students In Free Enterprise) On top of that, I get an extra $5,000 every year in school that goes into my pocket. And on top of that, I’m getting another $5,000 added on to the first $5,000 for the upcoming year. So that’s $10,000 I’m getting paid just to go to school this year!!!! And you think I finish LAST…..LOL!!!!! (Not to brag or anything like that) And the bad thing about it is that people around me don’t understand why the LORD keeps blessing me or how I am able to get the things I get.

Some people still give me flack for being a nice person, while others just thinks it’s weird. For example, I went by the library on a Saturday night to access the internet. The internet was out in the dorms and I had just uploaded a Perk-A-Lator video to Facebook and I wanted to track the feedback. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNMnDMcWP1k Well, as I was checking my Facebook account, a female came up and sat beside me. We happen to strike up a conversation about the video. After that, the conversation changed. All of sudden she asked me and I quote, “Why aren’t you going out tonight (to the club)???” I politely told her that that was against my morals. She looked at me with a confused look on her face and proceeded to ask “Why???” I went on to explain to her, but in my mind I was thinking, “Trick I don’t need an explanation….LOL!!!” After I explained my situation, she still looked confused and said she didn’t understand. She was a SIMPLE MINDED GIRL, so I DIDN’T EXPECT her to understand.

But I said that to say this. Being a nice person is not a popular decision and requires you to live a life that’s DIFFERENT from everybody around you. But, even though it seems as if everyone is prospering around you, you normally have a better quality of life, physically, mentally, and spiritually. I would have never gotten all the things I have gotten in life without being a NICE GUY. So don’t think that NICE GUYS are begging for anything, because we are not!!!! So to all those girls who normally put guys down for being TOO NICE, those same guys are probably going to end up with someone BETTER THAN YOU and you are going to envy that girl. PLEASE BELIEVE THAT!!!! And to those guys who constantly down other guys for being NICE, those same guys are probably going to be signing your check or know the person who is signing your check!!!! If you don’t believe me, just keep living your life. LIFE BALANCES ITSELF OUT. THOSE WHO APPEAR TO BE AT THE BOTTOM WILL EVENTUALLY BE ON TOP!!!!!

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LOOK HERE TRICK: Hating On What???

For some odd reason, the majority of people in the world think that they have a vast amount of HATERS watching their every move and waiting for their chance to bring them down. But the thing that they fail to realize is that every person in the world is not a HATER!!!! Sometimes people just don’t LIKE you. Now that doesn’t always make them a HATER. I know I have just confused a lot of people, but let me explain. There is a difference between a HATER and a person that doesn’t LIKE you. A HATER is a person that has no reason to dislike you. They just do it because they see something in you that is GREATER than them, and they have to bring you off your “HIGH HORSE,” if you catch my drift. A HATER’S main focus in life is to make sure that you seem inferior to them. That’s why they talk about you behind your back or plot against you. It’s because they are threatened by you. Now a person that doesn’t LIKE you is just that; a person that doesn’t LIKE you. Now just because they don’t LIKE you doesn’t mean that they are a HATER. A lot of the time, it is because of something YOU did!!!! As a matter of fact, they don’t like you because you may be a HATER!!!! Yea, I said it…..lol!!! There are many people who like to brag and boast about the LARGE number of HATERS that they have and they go all out with it. They even bring GOD in it by thanking him for all the HATE. But in actuality, the majority of those people are not HATERS. They just don’t like you because you are NOT a likeable person. It’s just a FACT!!!! Now the majority of the people that like to say that they have “HATERS” are normally those FAKE people who THINK that they are better than everyone else. You know those types of people!!! The ones that believe you have to be of a certain status to talk them. The ones that THINK they have a right to classify who is LAME and who is not. The ones that mistake your kindness as a ploy to get with them. You know, those type of people who believe it’s COOL to do what everyone else is doing. The ones that think everyone has a problem with them and fail to find out why!!! Those type of people!!! {And you wonder why I’m writing this BLOG…..lol} Yeah, the stuck- up kind. For some reason, they feel they have to PUBLISIZE (on Facebook, Myspace, or Twitter) that they have a “new HATER!!!!” Now we all know that they DON’T have a “new HATER” because we know the REAL them!!! We know that they have done something to someone and that person is just trying to seek retribution. And you know something else, these people are present in both the male and female community. For the males, these type of people are, normally, either the high class negro that THINK he has it all but he doesn’t or the FAKE thug who is trying to portray this IMAGE that even HE can’t live up to. For the females, it’s normally the HIGH-CLASS TRICK who wants everyone to believe that she is SO sophisticated, but we all know the truth. {Who COULD I be TALKING ABOUT???} Now the moral of this blog is simple. Just because there is a LARGE number of HATERS in the world, doesn’t mean that EVERYONE HATES on YOU!!! Just consider the facts. A lot of the time, YOU are not worth HATING on….lol!!!! You probably have the same type of things that the people around you have, so you are not different in that aspect. You need to do a DEEP analysis of yourself and see why people don’t LIKE you!!! In most instances, YOU are probably the KEY factor in a person deciding to “HATE” you!!!! And another question!!!! What makes you SO SPECIAL that someone has to quit whatever they are doing just to HATE on YOU!!! When did GOD anoint you as the AMBASSATOR of HATE!!! That train of thought SHOWS why YOU don’t have as many HATERS as you THINK you have!!! Now I’m not talking about everyone, because I know that there are people who have HATERS trying to bring them down. But, I am talking to those DISRESPECTFUL people who tend to generate hate. And you know the FUNNY thing about it, they don’t believe that the GENERATE HATE!!! I know a lot people who will read this entry will think that I’m not talking about them. But in actuality, I AM talking to you….male or FEMALE!!! In order to GET respect, you have to GIVE respect. And when you don’t GIVE that respect, you tend to suffer the repercussions. When you receive that repercussion, that doesn’t make that person who is administering the repercussion a HATER!!! That just means you are REAPING what you SEW!!! So before you decide to go PUBLIC about someone slandering your name, think to yourself and ask this question. What have you done to upset that person??? Now if you can’t answer that question quick, fast, and truthfully then you don’t need to call that person a HATER!!! They are just doing what YOU would DO if you were put in that situation!!!!



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You want to know something I find comical? Every time I hear a girl talk about how there aren’t any good men in the world….LOL!!!!! That’s when I begin to think that that comment can go both ways. For those who are slow or just choose not to comprehend let me put it in simpler terms. “There are times when I think that there are NO GOOD WOMEN in the world.” Now I know some of you are quite appalled by my comments but give me the opportunity to clarify myself. Let me start off by asking this question, “Whatever happened to the GOOD girl?”

Remember when there was a balance of two types of women that walked the earth. In one corner you would have the AROUND THE WAY GIRL, who was very promiscuous. This was the girl who men knew they could have there way with and the girl knew that. The AROUND THE WAY GIRL was never meant to be a girlfriend, but just a fling. The only thing that caught you about her was that she looked good and possessed some bodily features that created a deep level of infatuation. And then, in the other corner you had my type of girl, THE GOOD GIRL!!!! This was the girl you knew you could settle down with. She was mature beyond her age and she had a certain presence about her. Not only did she look good on the outside, she was good looking on the inside. She cared about people and did her best to help all the people around her. The only flaw she had was that it was extremely difficult to get with her because she didn’t associate with just anything. You had to come correct and be about something when you talked to her.

Now let’s fast-forward to now. Does anyone notice that the quality of the female is beginning to decline? For some odd reason it has become COOL to be a freak/whore. I know I’m not the only one who has noticed it. Now this doesn’t occur within all females, just like all men aren’t dogs, but a lot of women feel they have to express their sexual freedom. I guess we are living in the age of the Sexual Revolution 2009!!!!! LOL

To go along with the increasing number of promiscuous females, a new trend of female is beginning to arise, THE POSERS. This type of girl is the one that I just hate with a passion because they are insults to the meaning of a GOOD GIRL. For those who don’t know what THE POSER is, let me explain it to you. THE POSER is the type of girl that walks, talks, and acts like a GOOD GIRL, but is something else behind closed doors. THE POSER is perceived to be a GOOD GIRL in everything she does, but is nothing like she claims to be. You tend to hear stories about how she “got down” at a party or how “good in bed” she is. THE POSER normally doesn’t stay single for too long because all the guys have heard about her and feel that they can fool everyone into believing they have found a GOOD GIRL. THE POSER knows how to act when everyone is looking, but also knows how to be scandalous when no one is looking. THE POSER is overall just a fake, wanna be GOOD GIRL. The reason why I hate these types of women is because they send the wrong message out about how you should act. At least the AROUND THE WAY GIRL is truthful with what she does and doesn’t hide behind a mask just to be something that she is not.

Now I know that the acts of a few girls don’t speak for a large portion of girls who are CERTIFIED GOOD GIRLS, but I have to say that it is an extremely difficult task trying to figure out whether a girl is an AROUND THE WAY GIRL, a POSER, or a GOOD GIRL. I have almost given up all hope in finding the type of girl that is wife material. Now I must ask this question. What killed the GOOD GIRL? Is it because some females feel that males don’t want a GOOD GIRL? Or is it because women have become jealous of how men have been acting over the years and feel that if they can act that way, then a female can act the same way. I pray that it is not the latter because it would make you a hypocrite. Yes I said it, you would become a hypocrite if your reason for not being a GOOD GIRL is out of jealousy. You want to know how? This is how…..If you continue to call men NO-GOOD, but begin to adopt the same characteristics that make those so-called NO-GOOD men NO-GOOD, then that means you are becoming the same thing that the Man, in your eyes, has become.

Now, I can say a lot more on this topic, but I figured I have gotten myself into enough hot water as it is. But let me end by saying this. I am in no way, shape, form, or fashion taking up for those so-called “NO-GOOD” men because I despise their acts just as much as you do. The only thing I want you to get from reading this selection is that it is impossible to say that there are no good men left without accessing the female population. I would appreciate any feedback on this topic whether it be from a male or female or whether it is positive or negative. If I need to write a PART 2, I will do so, but I have to have enough feedback so I can clarify a number of things.

PS: On a lighter note…..To all the GOOD GIRLS out there, please begin to distinguish yourself from the rest of the girls because GOOD MEN (Like ME!!!!!!) are still looking for you. And do so quickly because, with the way I’m feeling right now, I might have to go out of the country just to find my queen!!!! LOL UNTIL NEXT TIME……IT’S OFFICIAL!!!!!!!!!

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