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For some odd reason, the majority of people in the world think that they have a vast amount of HATERS watching their every move and waiting for their chance to bring them down. But the thing that they fail to realize is that every person in the world is not a HATER!!!! Sometimes people just don’t LIKE you. Now that doesn’t always make them a HATER. I know I have just confused a lot of people, but let me explain. There is a difference between a HATER and a person that doesn’t LIKE you. A HATER is a person that has no reason to dislike you. They just do it because they see something in you that is GREATER than them, and they have to bring you off your “HIGH HORSE,” if you catch my drift. A HATER’S main focus in life is to make sure that you seem inferior to them. That’s why they talk about you behind your back or plot against you. It’s because they are threatened by you. Now a person that doesn’t LIKE you is just that; a person that doesn’t LIKE you. Now just because they don’t LIKE you doesn’t mean that they are a HATER. A lot of the time, it is because of something YOU did!!!! As a matter of fact, they don’t like you because you may be a HATER!!!! Yea, I said it…..lol!!! There are many people who like to brag and boast about the LARGE number of HATERS that they have and they go all out with it. They even bring GOD in it by thanking him for all the HATE. But in actuality, the majority of those people are not HATERS. They just don’t like you because you are NOT a likeable person. It’s just a FACT!!!! Now the majority of the people that like to say that they have “HATERS” are normally those FAKE people who THINK that they are better than everyone else. You know those types of people!!! The ones that believe you have to be of a certain status to talk them. The ones that THINK they have a right to classify who is LAME and who is not. The ones that mistake your kindness as a ploy to get with them. You know, those type of people who believe it’s COOL to do what everyone else is doing. The ones that think everyone has a problem with them and fail to find out why!!! Those type of people!!! {And you wonder why I’m writing this BLOG…..lol} Yeah, the stuck- up kind. For some reason, they feel they have to PUBLISIZE (on Facebook, Myspace, or Twitter) that they have a “new HATER!!!!” Now we all know that they DON’T have a “new HATER” because we know the REAL them!!! We know that they have done something to someone and that person is just trying to seek retribution. And you know something else, these people are present in both the male and female community. For the males, these type of people are, normally, either the high class negro that THINK he has it all but he doesn’t or the FAKE thug who is trying to portray this IMAGE that even HE can’t live up to. For the females, it’s normally the HIGH-CLASS TRICK who wants everyone to believe that she is SO sophisticated, but we all know the truth. {Who COULD I be TALKING ABOUT???} Now the moral of this blog is simple. Just because there is a LARGE number of HATERS in the world, doesn’t mean that EVERYONE HATES on YOU!!! Just consider the facts. A lot of the time, YOU are not worth HATING on….lol!!!! You probably have the same type of things that the people around you have, so you are not different in that aspect. You need to do a DEEP analysis of yourself and see why people don’t LIKE you!!! In most instances, YOU are probably the KEY factor in a person deciding to “HATE” you!!!! And another question!!!! What makes you SO SPECIAL that someone has to quit whatever they are doing just to HATE on YOU!!! When did GOD anoint you as the AMBASSATOR of HATE!!! That train of thought SHOWS why YOU don’t have as many HATERS as you THINK you have!!! Now I’m not talking about everyone, because I know that there are people who have HATERS trying to bring them down. But, I am talking to those DISRESPECTFUL people who tend to generate hate. And you know the FUNNY thing about it, they don’t believe that the GENERATE HATE!!! I know a lot people who will read this entry will think that I’m not talking about them. But in actuality, I AM talking to you….male or FEMALE!!! In order to GET respect, you have to GIVE respect. And when you don’t GIVE that respect, you tend to suffer the repercussions. When you receive that repercussion, that doesn’t make that person who is administering the repercussion a HATER!!! That just means you are REAPING what you SEW!!! So before you decide to go PUBLIC about someone slandering your name, think to yourself and ask this question. What have you done to upset that person??? Now if you can’t answer that question quick, fast, and truthfully then you don’t need to call that person a HATER!!! They are just doing what YOU would DO if you were put in that situation!!!!



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You want to know something I find comical? Every time I hear a girl talk about how there aren’t any good men in the world….LOL!!!!! That’s when I begin to think that that comment can go both ways. For those who are slow or just choose not to comprehend let me put it in simpler terms. “There are times when I think that there are NO GOOD WOMEN in the world.” Now I know some of you are quite appalled by my comments but give me the opportunity to clarify myself. Let me start off by asking this question, “Whatever happened to the GOOD girl?”

Remember when there was a balance of two types of women that walked the earth. In one corner you would have the AROUND THE WAY GIRL, who was very promiscuous. This was the girl who men knew they could have there way with and the girl knew that. The AROUND THE WAY GIRL was never meant to be a girlfriend, but just a fling. The only thing that caught you about her was that she looked good and possessed some bodily features that created a deep level of infatuation. And then, in the other corner you had my type of girl, THE GOOD GIRL!!!! This was the girl you knew you could settle down with. She was mature beyond her age and she had a certain presence about her. Not only did she look good on the outside, she was good looking on the inside. She cared about people and did her best to help all the people around her. The only flaw she had was that it was extremely difficult to get with her because she didn’t associate with just anything. You had to come correct and be about something when you talked to her.

Now let’s fast-forward to now. Does anyone notice that the quality of the female is beginning to decline? For some odd reason it has become COOL to be a freak/whore. I know I’m not the only one who has noticed it. Now this doesn’t occur within all females, just like all men aren’t dogs, but a lot of women feel they have to express their sexual freedom. I guess we are living in the age of the Sexual Revolution 2009!!!!! LOL

To go along with the increasing number of promiscuous females, a new trend of female is beginning to arise, THE POSERS. This type of girl is the one that I just hate with a passion because they are insults to the meaning of a GOOD GIRL. For those who don’t know what THE POSER is, let me explain it to you. THE POSER is the type of girl that walks, talks, and acts like a GOOD GIRL, but is something else behind closed doors. THE POSER is perceived to be a GOOD GIRL in everything she does, but is nothing like she claims to be. You tend to hear stories about how she “got down” at a party or how “good in bed” she is. THE POSER normally doesn’t stay single for too long because all the guys have heard about her and feel that they can fool everyone into believing they have found a GOOD GIRL. THE POSER knows how to act when everyone is looking, but also knows how to be scandalous when no one is looking. THE POSER is overall just a fake, wanna be GOOD GIRL. The reason why I hate these types of women is because they send the wrong message out about how you should act. At least the AROUND THE WAY GIRL is truthful with what she does and doesn’t hide behind a mask just to be something that she is not.

Now I know that the acts of a few girls don’t speak for a large portion of girls who are CERTIFIED GOOD GIRLS, but I have to say that it is an extremely difficult task trying to figure out whether a girl is an AROUND THE WAY GIRL, a POSER, or a GOOD GIRL. I have almost given up all hope in finding the type of girl that is wife material. Now I must ask this question. What killed the GOOD GIRL? Is it because some females feel that males don’t want a GOOD GIRL? Or is it because women have become jealous of how men have been acting over the years and feel that if they can act that way, then a female can act the same way. I pray that it is not the latter because it would make you a hypocrite. Yes I said it, you would become a hypocrite if your reason for not being a GOOD GIRL is out of jealousy. You want to know how? This is how…..If you continue to call men NO-GOOD, but begin to adopt the same characteristics that make those so-called NO-GOOD men NO-GOOD, then that means you are becoming the same thing that the Man, in your eyes, has become.

Now, I can say a lot more on this topic, but I figured I have gotten myself into enough hot water as it is. But let me end by saying this. I am in no way, shape, form, or fashion taking up for those so-called “NO-GOOD” men because I despise their acts just as much as you do. The only thing I want you to get from reading this selection is that it is impossible to say that there are no good men left without accessing the female population. I would appreciate any feedback on this topic whether it be from a male or female or whether it is positive or negative. If I need to write a PART 2, I will do so, but I have to have enough feedback so I can clarify a number of things.

PS: On a lighter note…..To all the GOOD GIRLS out there, please begin to distinguish yourself from the rest of the girls because GOOD MEN (Like ME!!!!!!) are still looking for you. And do so quickly because, with the way I’m feeling right now, I might have to go out of the country just to find my queen!!!! LOL UNTIL NEXT TIME……IT’S OFFICIAL!!!!!!!!!

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One thing that I love to do, more than anything in life, is observe my surroundings. One of the things that I couldn’t help but notice, while observing, is all the failed attempts at marriage. It seems no one wants to honor the vows that they take on that great wedding day. I guess people just get married for the wedding. While thinking about the possible reasons for the divorce, I have managed to narrow it down to three. Now, before you judge me on the topics, make sure you read my explanations. If you are willing to think for yourself and not let society think for you, you will be able to see where I’m coming from.

3. High Expectations

When I say high expectations, I view it in two ways. People have high expectations for the marriage and high expectations for their mate. First let me get to the high expectations for the marriage. For some strange reason people believe that marriage is the same way in real life as it is portrayed in a fairytale. People tend to think that there aren’t any conflicts when you get married and everything goes smoothly. I’m sorry to tell you this, but marriage is like a job. There are good days and there are bad days. And unless you love it, you will be bored for the rest of your life. Marriage is more than just the wedding and honeymoon. You have the days that follow the wedding in honeymoon. There are going to be some days when life is pressing you down and your marriage will seem as if it is going down. But, if you are able to get past all those days, it can only make your marriage better.

Now, let me get to the high expectations that mates put on each other. Men and women think too highly of their opposite sex. Most times some women think that their man can do no wrong and visa versa. This feeling is often caused by a smokescreen and that smokescreen is called infatuation. Now I know many of you believe that it is love that makes them feel this way, but I beg to differ. See, love helps you look past a person’s differences. People in love learn to deal with another person’s flaws. That is what makes love so special. On the other hand, when a person fails to notice those flaws, they are caught up into another person’s looks. That’s why I say it is infatuation and many couples get caught in this trap. They marry a person just because that person looks good and forget to see if that person is a good listener, a good provider, or if the person is willing to compromise. Marrying a person based on looks only leads to turmoil. Remember, you have to live with this person everyday of your life. And once you get to know that person, many things start to change. All of a sudden they realize that the person they married is not on a good level emotionally. Now, you are left with basically a human statue. By that I mean, the person is pretty on the eyes but doesn’t do anything else.

2. Sex Before Marriage

Before you get mad and start to think that I am just an angry Christian trying to force religion on you, hear me out. I’m going to try to explain this in a way where common sense is the main factor. Just think about this for a second. When you have sex before marriage, it leads to several problems.

First off, if you marry a person just because the sex is good, you have to realize something. You are not in love with that person; you are in love with the sex you get from that person. Sex only lasts for a moment and then it’s over. So you are basically saying that you are willing to sacrifice a lifetime of happiness for a moment of satisfaction. Well, I have one question for you then. What are you going to do when the sex is over? You forget that there are 24 hours in a day. Sex, on average, lasts anywhere from a couple minutes to an hour. What are you going to do for the next 23 hours? You can’t have sex all the time because it will start to get old, especially with the same person. Sex doesn’t determine whether a person treats you right. There a plenty of men who abuse their wives and are good in the bed.

Secondly, sex before marriage doesn’t leave much to be desired once you get married. What are you going to look forward to on your honeymoon? You have seen your mate in action before so you already know what to expect. That’s no fun!!!! Plus, this eventually leads to the sex getting old really quick. That’s one of the worst things that can happen to a marriage. I’ve heard this analogy plenty of times when people try to defend this action. They normally say “How can you drive a car before you test drive it.” Well I have an analogy for you, “How can you enjoy a Christmas present on Christmas if you open it before Christmas.” You figure it out. But, getting back to the matter at hand, once the sex gets old, either your mate starts to act grumpy more or your mate starts to look other places for excitement. Next thing you know, divorce papers are on your desk waiting to be signed.

Finally, sex before marriage could lead to you marrying for the wrong reason. Just think what could happen if the woman gets pregnant while having sex? This could lead to two people marrying before they are ready just to make sure that their child has a mother and father who are together. But truth be told, that is not going to help that child much. Just think what that child has to go through on a daily basis. People wonder why some of these kids are so bad. Just put your self in that kid position. You have to grow up knowing that you are a mistake. It was never planned for you to be here. Just think how that child feels knowing that his or her mother cried tears of sorrow when she found out she was pregnant. That makes you want to rebel. Plus, once the rocky road of marriage hits the parents, it leads to more turmoil that has to be witnessed by the child.

1. I Before We

I have found out that the main reason why some marriages don’t last is because the people in the marriage refuse to sacrifice for the betterment of the relationship. Like I said before, marriage is like a job. With that being said, you have to sacrifice to make it work. You have to have tough skin when you decide to marry. There will be plenty of times where your mate will get under your skin so much that you will want to kill that person. It’s a fact. You may say how do you know so much about marriage, but not be involved in one. The reason why I am able to speak on this issue is because I have parents who have been married over 30 years. I have seen the good, the bad, and the ugly from them both. But, I can truly say that they love each other. They find a way to work through their many differences. My father doesn’t get his way all the time and my mother doesn’t get her way all the time; but they manage to find common ground most of the time. I’ve seen plenty of times where my mother had to get out the house and take a drive because she was so mad with my father. But, she always came back and they would kiss and make up. That’s what people have to be willing to do in their own marriage. Forget about Me and focus on We because in the end, your mate is all you got. Since you are going to be together for the rest of your life, you have to turn your relationship into a friendship. Times are going to get hard, so you will need that friend to have your back. Sure, there are going to be things that you don’t agree with in your marriage, but that’s life. This is what you signed up for. The vows said “For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health as long as you both shall live.” Those vows are not just meant to be said, but meant to be lived.