LOOK HERE TRICK: Kobe!!! LOL

This just looks like a typical #LOOKHERETRICK moment!!! lol

Words I Never Said

This past year has truly been one to remember. A lot has happened to me over these past 12 months that I don’t even know where to begin. Emotionally, I can say that it has been the best of times and the worst of times. I haven’t really told people how I truly feel because I don’t think anyone really cares about the next man’s problems. The people that you want to read this post never read it so information is withheld. Sure we all say cliché things such as “I’m here for you” or “If you need me, just call” but how many of us actually mean it when we say it? I say none. But anyway, my emotions have really been played with. And that’s just not with one aspect of life, but more like with all of the aspects; Spiritually, Professionally, Academic Wise and Relationship Wise. I guess I’ll just start rambling and maybe I’ll get somewhere once I’m finished writing this. lol

Spiritually

God has really been testing me for a while now. I know that his main message that He has been trying to convey with me is “Will you trust Me?” As everyone knows, I was born in the church. Raised in the church. All I know is the church. But I also know that a relationship with God extends beyond the four walls of a church building. I know for a fact God has been watching over me my whole life. I don’t need confirmation for that. But the problem I seem to face is with my future goals and aspirations and how they fit within His plan for my life. I want to either have a good job in the Sports Industry or own my own business but it’s kind of hard figuring out if I will have enough time to devote to God by doing those things. I don’t want to be one of those people who gain all the riches of the world just to be bound for hell. And it feels like God has been taking things away from me to see if I will truly trust Him. This is a really tough test I’m in right now and I hope I pass it. I’m far from perfect and I hope people see that. I may not smoke, drink, curse, have sex or party, but I do struggle with temptation on a daily basis. I don’t put myself above any other person because I feel we all are the same in God’s eye. I’ve been more receptive to God’s word now than I have been in the past. It’s kind of weird though. Most people think I’m going to be a Preacher in the future. Honestly, I don’t see it. But if that is God’s plan for me, I have no choice but to abide in it. It doesn’t feel like God is throwing me down that path because I feel that there are many other ways to reach people through Ministry without actually being a Minister. But that’s just my opinion.

Professionally

I can say this past year I’ve seen the worst of Labor force. I’ve always known that people will lie to you just because. But it’s nothing like having it done to you on a daily basis and you are powerless against it. That is basically the summary of my experience in the work force this past year. It began with uncertainty and ended with deceit. I can say this though. I learned that a regular 9 to 5 isn’t for me. I learned how not to act as a boss. And I also learned that people really don’t care about you for the most part. It’s a dog eat dog world out there and unless you have a “Care Less Attitude”, people will use you for everything you got. People are naturally selfish and they always have motives driven around their own personal goals. You can’t truly believe anyone if they say they are doing something solely for your benefit. Chances are that it’s a lie. I still believe in helping people, but it gets to a point where you don’t know if your help is actually benefiting that person. I did get to a point on my job where I hated being there and I was only doing it for a check. That feeling alone can mess you up because I wasn’t really happy. I’ve always been the type of person where simple things bring me joy. When things start compromising my joy that’s when I realize I’m that it’s not worth it to stay. I don’t want to get into any of the specifics that happened at my job, but just know I learned from the experience. I’m grateful that I had an opportunity to take part in the Insurance Industry but it wasn’t for me. I just wished things were handled in a more appropriate and professional way. But we can’t get what we want all the time so I just move on.

Academic Wise

Well graduation is coming and I don’t know whether I should be happy or sad. On one end of the spectrum, I’m happy I finished undergraduate level college. That was a major goal for me. The majority of my accolades have come in the Academic arena. But on the other hand, I’m really sad to see this experience go. I can honestly say that these last 4 years have been the greatest 4 years of my life. Even with all the mess I’ve had to put up with, I have really enjoyed myself. I’ve met some great people and experienced some wonderful things. I will never get these years back and that’s the sad part. Where I’m from, we don’t get this often so it’s hard to let go. I’ve also been thinking about the degree I’ve been working toward. It’s starting to feel like it’s not going to be worth anything much. I feel as though there is much work for my department if they want to reach the goals that they have set. I also feel that I have been deprived of a quality education for a little bit because I have some teachers who do more talking than teaching. I’ve never been one for a lot of talk. I’ve always believed that actions speak louder than words. So it’s kind of hard for me to believe you know how to teach when all you are doing is talking and giving us busy work to do. That’s just how I feel. All teachers are not like this, but some of the ones I need to graduate are like this. I’ve just gotten to a point where I’m tired of being used and lied to and that’s how my Academic experience has been feeling like. I know I’m not the only one that feels this way and I will just leave it at that.

Relationship Wise

I saved this one for last for a reason. I could write a book on this topic or my lack thereof of this topic. I still have the same problem that I’ve always had. I’m just a better “Friend” to these female than a potential Boyfriend. I guess I just have all around good friend qualities. I can’t blame anyone for this other than myself. I just don’t know how to come off as anything other than a friend. That’s just the perception that I give off. I don’t try to do it. It just happens for some reason. I think I’m the master at liking the girl that’s never going to like me back. Maybe I just have a terrible choice in the women I like. I don’t know. But what I do know is that I do have longing for a companion in my life. I got to the point where I would accept anyone that I like for who they are and hopefully we could grow together. That didn’t work out too well. The difficult part about that is that the other person has to accept you for who you are as well. I know I’m an average guy. My calling card is making girls laugh. I’m short and I won’t be beating a lot of people in a Good Looks competition. So I have to be good at other stuff like listening, being understanding, being reliable and etc. But qualities like that are what girls look for in friends. Just this past year, I made a mistake and started catching feelings for a person just because they told me their problems and I listened. That person just wanted to be my friend and I ended up wanting more. Those two different attitudes messed up what could have been a great friend relationship. Now we can’t really associate in public that long because we feel uncomfortable around each other. I can’t lie, it hurts knowing that the person you like doesn’t like you back. I tried to fulfill that person needs and wants but I wasn’t the person that they were looking for to do that. It’s easy to say just move on but it’s not like I’m being presented with many options on a daily basis. I guess that’s the price you pay when you let your guard down. Now I’m in a position where I was once cool with someone, but now I don’t know how cool I am with that person because they really don’t think about me when they’re at this school setting. And it’s even harder when this person just stops conversing with you like they used to. It makes you wonder if love is really meant for you. I’ve experienced the “Friend Zone” a lot in my years of living. It’s a lonely place to be, especially when you are put into the “Friend Zone” by a person who you want to be more than friends with. But then you realize that you have to fulfill your friend duties even though it eats at you daily that this person is just not into you. It hurts even worse when that person tries to separate from you thus leaving your with a huge void in your heart. But that’s just me. I guess this is just God telling me that He has something that I can’t see yet. It probably is, but I sure would like to know soon. Hurt feelings don’t go away fast.

So that’s just a little look into my life. As you can see, it’s kind of complex. I guess that’s why most people don’t try to get to know me like that. I hope this post fulfills whatever purpose it was suppose to fill. Until the next time, Peace and Much Love To You!!!!!

She Has CEO Potential

That girl has CEO potential.

She needs no attention.

Her mind is in the sky,

Based in another dimension.

She's so focused on her dream.

Careful to pick who's on her team.

When you ask her what's her favorite color,

Her reply is alway C.R.E.A.M.

Cash Rules Everything Around Me.

A song she often sings.

What's better than getting cheddar?

She knows not of that thing.

She has her head on straight,

As she patiently awaits.

You would have to look through a book of virtues

To define her various traits.

With the heart of a lion,

And the will of a fresh prince.

The price for her success tends to come at no expense.

Her coronation will commence,

For the girl that's Heaven sent.

Your resume' must be Grade A before she signs your letter of intent.

The word independent, she resents it

Because she knows that she's way much more

Even with the body of a goddess, she has more of her in store.

Beauty and Brains.

She maneuvers through different lanes.

Often she has been picked to fail,

But her own destiny she will change.

Too strong to be put down.

Because with no cross comes no crown

She's loud when she has to be,

But can get the job done without making a sound.

She refuses to settle for less.

Because she knows she deserves the best.

While you're talking behind her back,

She's too busy being blessed.

The girl with it all.

But too humble to make that call.

She will always be on top,

So get with it or learn to fall.

Look Here Trick: I Just Want You To Be Happy (Even If It's Not With Me)

I figured I'd try something new just to express myself in another way. I could write a long narrative of how I've been feeling for the last few months but I decided this would be the best way. Enjoy!!!!

They say good comes to those who wait.

But what if I've waited a whole lifetime for someone who couldn't relate.

My jealous tendacies are to hide my insecurities,

Because I can't picture a you without me.

And everybody around can't see,

The smile on my face and in my heart when you speak.

But sadly in reality that's just a cheap fantansy.

For I see in you, what you Cannot see in me.

And I have to respect that.

Opposite people don't always attract.

But how shallow of me to go on the attack.

When you were the specimen I felt that I lacked.

But I remember why I talked to you in the first place.

You were down and out and in a broken state.

It was I who saw that frown and wanted it erased.

And so began my current chase.

Although it appears to be over now.

You moving on is something I have to allow.

But the thing that inspires me the most is your smile.

And how it's like the laughter from the joy of a child.

So I begin this intervention.

Maybe you being happy is what I'm missing.

And if it's you talking your problems out while I just sit there and listen.

It's cool because I'm not trippin'.

In essence, just knowing you has been blessing.

Even if speaking to you only occurs while you are stressing.

I guess that's just a lesson that I have to learn.

And these ill feelings toward you I have to spurn.

As long as you are content with your life, it's cool to see,

How happy you are, even if it's without me.

LOOK HERE TRICK: IT’S TIME TO LEAVE!!!!

Hello everyone!!! I'm back with this special blog. I haven't done this in like a year. PLEASE DON'T KILL ME!!!! First things First. FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER. (www.twitter.com/clemred21) That's like a blog in itself because I snap on different topics daily. Support your boy!!! Okay now do the topic. I will be asking a question and kind of answering it in the same blog. So you will be entertained.

I’ve noticed a lot of things in my 21 years of living. People will stay in a bad situation, no matter what, if they become attached to any element of that condition. It doesn’t take much to get attached. If you got a bad job, the pay is what makes you stay because you have become attached to making a certain amount of money. Well this statement is true concerning RELATIONSHIPS. Human Beings are known to stay in bad relationships because of attachment. Or in other words, people in relationships get hooked into bad predicaments because of the thought of self perceived LOVE. I call it SELF PERCEIVED LOVE because normally LOVE in a bad situation is not really LOVE. It’s just a feeling at a moment in time and nothing true.

This is really evident with GIRLS. It is known that girls are EMOTIONAL creatures. Every decision they make is based on feelings and sentiment. So because they are such an emotional bunch, they are easily fooled into bad relationships. Every person has a need to be LOVED. But every person has a level of tolerance for what they are willing to sacrifice for LOVE. Well most females have a HIGH TOLERANCE LEVEL when they are looking for LOVE and will put up with a lot of mess to keep it. But can we really call what they put up with LOVE???? I beg to differ. I personally think they put up with a lot of mess because they are not really sure what LOVE is. And once they get a hold of something that is thought to be LOVE, they attempt to hold on to it without truly analyzing whether it is LOVE or not.

I’ve seen girls get with a dude who everyone knows is cheating on them and they always make an excuse to stay with that person. Some girls have even walked in on their man while he was in the act of cheating and still forgave him. And what for??? So what you have good sex. So what if he makes you feel good for moments at a time. SO WHAT if he is ALL you think you can get. It makes NO difference if he treats you like a prop and not the human being that you are.

Is a MAN worth it when he’s more concerned with his status rather than your feelings? Is it worth it to hear all the whispers of the people saying that your boyfriend is cheating on you with another girl? If it is then there has to be some kind of self evaluation going on in your life. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is let go of something that is thought to be special even when it’s the right thing to do. But this is life and it is filled with tough decisions that you have to make them whether you want to or not.

In all honesty, if a man is treating his girl with total disrespect and doesn’t honor the relationship, then it’s time to let that person go. By staying in that predicament, it makes you look real needy and shows how reliant you are of other people. I understand that you invested a lot of time into making your relationship work, but to everything there is a season and your season has run its course. It will be hard to let that person go, but it’s even harder if you continue to live in the lie that you are stuck in. MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE.

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OFFICIALLY MY NEW FAVORITE COMMERCIAL!!!!!

LOOK HERE TRICK: 5 Types of Guys 2 Beware Of!!!!

Most of the people who actually read my blog know that I’m not one to hold back in my writing. When I see an issue that urks me, I normally go in with all intent of getting my point of view out. However, I have noticed that I have got on the women a little too much without giving equal attention to the men. So, I decided that it was time to help the women instead of chastising them all the time. I have said plenty of times that the women don’t know what a GOOD MAN is, so I have made it my duty to devise a list of the MAIN TYPES of GUYS that women shouldn’t date. There are more types that should be on this list, but these are the main types that cause discomfort to the FEMALE gender. {Caution: If you think I’m talking about you, then you must be admitting to yourself what you really are!!!!}

5. The Clown

I can already hear it now. Many of you are asking what is THE CLOWN. Well, THE CLOWN is the dude that does anything for a laugh. He has no goal in life. Basically, his life is your entertainment. At first glance, most women don’t view THE CLOWN as boyfriend material. But once THE CLOWN starts working his magic, women are reeled in. Most women like to laugh and that falls right into his plans. You see THE CLOWN’S main intention, just like the rest on this list, is to get in between your legs. He just goes about it in a unique way. Some CLOWNS have problems with narcotics and the bottle. Those things tend to alter his mood from time to time and make him over the edge sometimes. You would be surprised at how many girls THE CLOWN has. A lot of women want to have fun and that is what THE CLOWN provides; A brief moment of FUN. But it doesn’t last forever and THE CLOWN eventually moves on to the next girl.

4. The “Wanna Be” Thug

THE WANNA BE THUG is just that, a WANNA BE THUG!!!! This dude walks, talks, dresses, and acts like a REAL THUG. But the problem is that this dude has NEVER done anything in life THUG WORTHY!!! He knows every THUG song and he lives by what he hears on a CD. One of his biggest attributes it that he talks A LOT of noise. He is that dude that always talks about fighting, but no one has actually seen him in a real fight!!! This dude gets girls off of strictly reputation. A lot of girls get sucked into thinking he is a thug, even though he is not. Some girls even recognize that he his NOT a thug and still decide to give him a try. But it really doesn’t matter to THE WANNE BE THUG because the only thing he cares about is himself. He will continue to be that dude claiming to have MORE WHORES THAN YOU!!!!

3. The Cocky Athlete

THE COCKY ATHLETE is a unique individual. He is supremely confident because he has to be that way. His respective sport requires him to be confident in his abilities. But the problem is that he doesn’t know how TURN HIS SWAG OFF!!! THE COCKY ATHLETE only talks to certain females because he feels that he is of a higher echelon than others. You would think that this attitude would detract girls from wanting to be with him, but the opposite actually happens. More girls want to be with him because they figure he’s a hard catch. Everyone loves a challenge. But just like when he dominates his opposition in his respective sport, he dominates the relationship. It’s always going to be about him, whether you like it or not. THE COCKY ATHLETE, also, does have A LOT of options out there in the marketplace. So if the female is not living up to his expectations, then he will go looking elsewhere.

2. The Real Thug

It has been said that most girls tend to gravitate to the BAD BOYS. Well we all know that the ultimate “Bad Boy” is THE REAL THUG. This dude is always in the streets because that is all he knows. His life is all about “Trap or Die!!!” But don’t get me wrong, he is still able to show his softer side. I guess this is what attracts most females. The one thing you don’t have to worry about is protection with this guy. If you are having a problem, this guy will handle that real quickly in a violent manner. But the things that make him good also make him bad. Due to his violent nature, he is more likely to hit the female that he is with. You see, he has an uncontrollable rage and that can become scary in different situations. Before the girl knows it, she could end up dead messing with this dude. THE REAL THUG is also more likely to go to jail because of some the illegal activities he takes part in. That means that whoever is his girlfriend will have to wait on him to come out of jail and stay faithful for that time. Even if THE REAL THUG is in jail, he expects his lady to stay faithful to him. He is a controlling figure and everything must go his way or he will handle it.

1. The “Pretty” Boy

Now I know many of you are puzzled as to why I have THE PRETTY BOY number 1 on this list. Well it’s real simple. This dude can affect FEMALES in ways that NONE of these other guys can. Instead of messing with you physically, he works on you mentally and emotionally. This is the type of dude that most girls fall in love with, and become emotionally distraught when the relationship is over. The next thing you know, the girl is crying all the time because she feels that HER LIFE, HER LOVE, And HER ALL is gone. Meanwhile, this dude is already on the next chick, playing her like a fool. No one expects this guy to be the CHEATING type and that’s what he wants you to think. You see, this dude is the master manipulator. He knows what girls want to hear and he tells them that. He is great at telling lies and knows how to make them sound believable. He tends to LIE FOR NO REASON because that his apart of his nature. THE PRETTY BOY looks like everything a girl wants in a man. He dresses the part, talks the part, and walks the part. The problem is, though, that he CAN’T say NO to females. It’s nothing to him to have 6 or 7 girls at the same time. Even if he has the perfect girl next to him, he will always be in communication with another female. He ALWAYS has options. Matter of fact, THE REAL THUG is more likely to be faithful than THE PRETTY BOY.

Another reason why he is so dangerous is that he has the ability to make some girls become LESBIANS. Think about it. Some girls view THE PRETTY BOY as the perfect man. They figure if anybody is going to treat them right, it will be him. So they invest so much time into the relationship because they want to make sure it goes right. But then they find out he is cheating and they become emotional. After all that invested time they start to think that maybe ALL DUDES ARE DOGS. So they go after the next best thing and that’s another girl. Since men can’t treat her right, surely another female will treat her right. So now you see why this dude is probably THE MOST DANGEROUS MAN to date!!!!

If you enjoyed this selection or have anything to say about what I wrote, please feel free to make a comment. Thanks again for reading my blog.